Being Direct

Nathan has learned from his parents about being direct. We don't beat around the bush with him on many things. If he makes a mess(toys), he picks it up (most of the time). If he spills, he at least helps get it up. If he asks for something he is capable of getting for himself, we give him permission and instruct him to get it. He is also helping others to do for themselves. Case in point: Nathan's "Aunt 'Neen" was visiting this weekend, and inquired as to where his "Billy" and "Colorado" were. (Nathan used to regularly sleep with these two small stuffed friends.) Nathan told her that they were in his room, and proceeded to show her where. After pointing out their location, Aunt 'Neen said, "Go get 'em, Nathan," assuming he would want to be reunited in time for bed. Nathan quickly replied, "You want 'em, you get 'em!"
Uncle Brad laughed and said, "He got that from his Daddy!"